Before you start a veggie garden, I’d like to impart thoughts about my first season with a large, legitimate plot. September is drawing to a close and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Or rather, I can see that soon I’ll be working hard to prep my garden for next year!
First of all, you need to get your ducks in a row!
Unless you have done tons of research and are prepared way ahead of time (good for you), find a friend who is caring enough to give you great advice. I did that and Julie helped me lay a super solid foundation of knowledge on which to build my garden.
Do not get overwhelmed! Take it one day at a time. If you run out of time to build another box, let it go. You can add on next year!
Be prepared to start you garden inside in FEBRUARY! That’s right, during winter. It seems so crazy, right? But that is when you have to clear a large space and start seeds growing, especially cold weather veggies like cabbage and broccoli.
Learn relaxation techniques to pull you through all those dreaded late frosts. You may have planted potatoes, beets, turnips, and a few greens and they have already emerged!
Around May 1, email or call all of your friends and tell them you love them, but will not see or talk to them, go to any functions, or respond to emails until November as you will be neck deep in dirt, weeds, and vegetables.
If you are crazy enough to commit to the project, you will spend your ENTIRE summer gathering vegetables, washing vegetables, eating vegetables, canning vegetables, and yes, even DREAMING about vegetables. In July, I had nightmares almost every night about squash bugs. They are hellish creatures that are nearly impossible to kill and they systematically take over your squash rows.
Read a lot about squash bugs. Be prepared to have a few “decoy” plants. You can always let them cover that plant and then pour on gasoline and burn them all to hell while you start new plants in a different location. I am plotting to start squash rows in around 5 different locations on our property next year.
Read thy tomato books. Tomatoes are going to get their very own blog post. What is that? Anyone can grow tomatoes? Mohahahahaha, mooohahahahahaha…. Sorry. I am laughing maniacally right now. Ha. Oh my.
Learn to can. Find a friend who cans. Invest in a Food Saver and an extra freezer!!! Because when those green beans and okra come in, just be ready.
Water. It’s important. Years back, I would not have had what it takes to garden like this. When mid-July rolled around I decided it was too hot to go outside. Or I’d forget to water and everything in the yard I’d worked hard on in the lovely cool weeks of May would shrivel up and turn brown by August.
Get a nice big hat, a few long-sleeved shirts, and a stack of sweat rags. Many days, even if I managed to get out there at 6am, sweat was rolling down into my eyes in no time. Yes darling, it’s all a part of gardening. Sweat, dirt, blood, tears, and constantly dirty nails.
With the end of my garden season right around the corner, I feel proud. I did it!!! I can do the dance of JOY! WOO HOOOOOOOOOO! My goal was to save money on groceries and stock our pantry and freezer with food to enjoy for months.
I clocked countless hours in my kitchen. I spend most of my time there anyway what with feeding a family of 6. Add to that blanching, freezing, canning, mixing, chopping….. Really, you have no idea. Also, it was hot. I need an outdoor kitchen.
Two times I literally thought I would crawl out of my skin if I had to spend another minute over the stove. Then I’d go out to the garden, have a great time picking more tomatoes and more okra and remind myself that doing all this hard work now means less work over winter. I will actually be able to pay more attention to my children!
Recently, my parents and I returned from camping with three small children, ages 6, 4, and 1. My 9-year-old was at an actual fancy christian camp for the week. We figured if we were going to drive her that far, we might as well find someplace beautiful to camp for the week.
Once the excitement of an impending camping trip wore off, I found myself wallowing in a feeling of dread due to unpreparedness. The only way to fix it was to make a plan and be prepared way ahead of time for the trip.
Thus began my research on Pinterest and asking friends with kids for advice on camping.
Many of the tips and ideas worked, many did not. One thing was for sure, I spent too much time and money getting prepared. Better safe than sorry!
After multiple trips to Dollar Tree, we had a major Busy Bag making day.
The best part for me was using my label maker. I love it, it makes me feel like I am actually in control of my life. When in a panic LABEL IT! I promise, labeling something will make you feel better!
For some reason, I imagined we would need to eat….. like really eat a ton of food. Don’t ask me why I thought we would need to eat three times as much as we normally do at home. We are all relatively light eaters. And because it was a special trip, I included candy and crackers!
I suppose in my mind, a week from home meant packing a mountain of snacks and meal supplies. Both my mom and I went way overboard.
Three weeks out from the trip, I had plastic totes loaded and stacked in my Camping Queue.
Four days before the trip I had my van’s oil changed, fluids checked, and tires aired up.
Two days before the trip the van and car seats were thoroughly cleaned, vacuumed, and my husband took out the back seats.
If we had to go camping with all six of us in one car, we would have to purify lake water, scavenge for food, and wear one outfit each the entire week. The van was LOADED! My parents took their truck which was also loaded and they carried one child in their back seat.
The trip was a blast! Surprisingly, I’m ready to do it again. I want to share with you the ideas for camping with young kids that worked and the ones that did not.
Great Ideas in the Car
Busy Bags – Buy small zipper bags at Dollar Tree. Fill each one with a different activity. The favorite by far for my kids was the one filled with pipe cleaners. They left none for the ride home.
One large bag filled with just a few toys and books instead of letting each child pack their own entertainment bag. I put this in with all of the busy bags, which were all clasped together with one ring.
Stories on audio cd. MAGIC!! Stock up if you have a long drive. We listened to Mother Goose, Farmyard Tales, and a whole series of stories written and read by Roald Dahl.
A cooler of ice cold drinks. I should have put more in for the trip there.
Soft vinyl lap desk. This actually worked brilliantly for only one of my children. My 4 year old loved having the side pockets for her drinks and small toys and books and used the desk part to play with pipe cleaners.
Packing using a plastic dresser and many totes. I brought one huge and two small totes and one plastic dresser. I packed all of our clothes in the little dresser. It fit perfectly into the van and on the nights we stayed at motels, I was able to access it simply by opening the back of my van!
Bad Ideas in the Car
Snacks. They get everywhere and it was up to me to drive and try to hand out snacks. Nope. Food should be reserved for stops when kids can get out of the car and eat which is what we ended up doing.
Car pillows. My friend gave us her retired pillows. They are an amazing design, but in order for them to work for my young ones, I’d have to stop and put it on for them, which they would then take off a few moments later. They ended up on the floor of the van getting stepped on. I will probably save them for when the kids are older.
DVD player. Only my son watched dvds and he was in the truck with my parents. It tends to make my girls carsick and they were much happier with songs and stories.
Coloring. Crayons everywhere. I also brought a dry erase board and markers. No, not a good idea, even for my 6 year old who does not like to keep things in the car organized. I figured they would play with them at the campsite.
Behavior Clips for the visor. This did not work for little kids. I might reinstate it for when they are older. They liked making them though! Mostly, my kids were great in the car, which was a first.
Brilliant Ideas for the Campground
We stayed in a yurt so we did not have to worry about bringing and pitching tents and mattresses.
After emptying the big black tote, we put it by the water source and filled it 1/4 full with water. With the lid on, it became our washing station counter. With the lid off, it was a bath for the little girls at the end of the day! BRILLIANT!!!!!!!
Small plastic tubs. We used one as our sink for washing dishes and another for holding stuff.
Small plastic caddies we bought at Dollar Tree. The idea on Pinterest was to use them to hold fast food while going down the road. We used them as bathroom caddies. I used one for me and the three kids. It was a long hike to and from the bathroom. With the caddy, it was so easy to get all of our soaps, toothbrushes, etc. to and from the bathroom.
Easy Meal Ideas. I created a board on Pinterest for camping meals. Between me and my parents we came up with some great meals for dinnertime and breakfasts.
Snacks. It was a good idea to bring snacks, but we really didn’t snack much. I should have only brought Pringles and some Cliff bars and called it good.
Bottled water. While we had fresh water at the camp site and filled a big jug each day, it was wonderful having cold drinks in the cooler to take on hikes and to the playground. It also saved me from more cup washing at the end of the day.
A baggie full of my homemade laundry detergent. I underestimated how dirty the kids would get and ended up using one of the handy totes to wash laundry. So happy I brought the detergent!
Mini DVD player. While the yurt was VERY hot and relatively primitive, it did have electrical outlets. Twice during the week when we adults simply needed a break to sit down, we let the kids have downtime in the yurt with a movie.
Not-S0-Great Ideas for the Campground
Food. We brought too much food. Had it been Fall or Winter, we may have sat around eating more. But we were hot and busy and mostly thirsty. Our coolers were too full and I had an entire tote full of dry snacks like raisins, granola, crackers, and chips. We were usually too full from the last meal to eat and that entire tote ended up wasting space in the van and in the yurt. I ended up losing a little weight despite being off my normal diet and with drinking a LOT of beer due to being so hot.
Those macaroni and cheese in a cup. NO, those are HORRIBLE. My kids tried a tiny taste and threw it out. Nasty stuff. So bad. I’ll never buy those again.
Coloring and entertainment box. Not only did it take up space, but we only used the play-doh and bubbles. The kids were perfectly entertained just being with us outside and with everything camping. Again, wasted prep energy and space in the car! OY VEY!
A small inflatable bed for the baby. It took up space AND I had to spend $$ on a pump on the way to the camp site to blow it up. She just hated it. After a bad night, my parents ended up putting their bunk bed mattresses side by side on the floor and the baby slept between them.
Tackle boxes filled with snacks aka Snackle Boxes. I chose poorly on snacks. They could have been a good thing with different choices of snacks. Maybe just some crackers, nuts, seeds, and raisins. The chocolates melted into globs and the kids were never hungry for the snacks or only thought of them RIGHT before a meal. The kids really loved the idea and loved looking at the boxes, but no one ate the snacks. *I remember taking photos of them as they were so cute, but can’t find the docs! Sorry.
To sum it up, we had a stellar time camping. My son spent most of his time in the canoe play fishing. When he wasn’t doing that he was running around introducing himself to other campers and hitching rides in sweet cars.
The little girls were dirty by lunchtime each day.Dirt is ok, it’s healthy and good for the immune system so I never let it bother me. At the end of the day they both got in the big black bathtub and loved it. Win win!
I enjoyed hiking, hanging out with my wonderful parents and my BFF Jamie, who joined us for two nights. I canoed with my kids, swam, ate great food, drank a lot of beer, and for the most part, slept well in the yurt.
We went to almost every daily chat or hike with Park Interpreter Heather Hula whom my son adored. She was an expert on birds, fishing, and all things camping.
It was probably the most fun I’ve had on a camping trip since I was a kid.
Next time, I’ll pack less food/entertainment and bring extra socks and laundry detergent.